To Forget or to Wait?

To forget someone is really a long process. But in the end you will realize, it is worth it. You free yourself from the heartaches, pain and misery. You feel fresh, you feel like you are a new person. And that is the best part of forgetting. You avoid bad vibrations and bitterness. 

To wait for someone without the assurance of when will they come back or WILL they ever come back, is a ripping-your-heart-out-off-your-chest feeling. You can never assume what will happen because promises are meant to be broken and you stress yourself on thinking and waiting. And in the end, if life does not come your way, you will end up destroyed. No body wants that!

For me, IT IS BETTER to forget because best things in life come unexpectedly and no one could predict the future. Best things come to those who think they deserve someone better. Someone who will not keep them waiting and will stay with them all through out.

Love, at any perspective, Love is still love.

Have you ever been in love? Horrible isn’t it? It makes you vulnerable. It opens your chest and it opens up your heart and it means that someone can get inside you and mess you up. You build up all the defenses, you build up a whole suit of armor, so that nothing can hurt you, then one person, no different from any other person, wanders into your life. You give them a piece of you even they did not ask for it. They kiss you, they smile at you and then your life is not your own anymore. Love takes hostages. It gets inside you. It eats you out and leaves you crying in the darkness, so simple a phrase “maybe we should be just friends.” turns into a glass splinter working its way into your heart. IT HURTS. Not just in the imagination, not just in the mind. It is a SOUL-HURT, a real GETS-INSIDE-YOU-AND RIPS-YOU-APART PAIN. Well that is LOVE. It makes you, it breaks you. You feel wonderful or miserable, either way. LOVE IS WORTH IT.